PinnedHow Two Gay Guys Sold Everything, Left to Travel the World…and Lived Happily Ever AfterI’m part of a gay couple of more than two decades, and we’re both writers — Michael writes novels, and I write novels and screenplays. In 2016, we owned a nice house in Seattle with a good circle of friends, but we weren’t especially happy. …Digital Nomads7 min readDigital Nomads7 min read
Jul 13, 2021Business Insider Magazine Craps All Over Digital NomadsOne badly written and researched article unfairly damns all remote workers I’ve seen a lot of bad takes about digital nomads since I started nomading myself back in 2017, but “How digital nomads are ruining tropical paradises” by David Kushner is one of the worst. Let me be clear about…Digital Nomad Lifestyle5 min readDigital Nomad Lifestyle5 min read
Jun 11, 2021Don’t Leave the Mirkwood Trail!When I read The Hobbit as a kid, the sequence in Mirkwood Forest really stuck with me. Bilbo and the company of dwarves are desperate to get to Lonely Mountain, in order reclaim a great treasure. But to get there on time, they must past through an ancient (and very…The Hobbit6 min readThe Hobbit6 min read
Jun 10, 2021We’re a Gay Couple That Had to Get Married Five TimesI’m part of a same-sex couple that’s been together for twenty-eight years, married for twenty-three. But over the years, we had to get married five times. To each other, no less. Let’s run through our different marriages, shall we? …Gay6 min readGay6 min read
Jun 5, 2021I Didn’t Have to Choose Between Travel and Dungeons & DragonsWhen my husband Michael and I decided in 2016 to leave the United States and travel indefinitely, there were really only two things I worried I’d miss. Having a cat, for one. I’ve always loved cats. And also getting together with a group of five of my buddies to play…Dungeons Dragons6 min readDungeons Dragons6 min read
Jun 5, 2021Foreign Toilets Are Nothing to be Afraid ofThe first time my husband Michael and I were considering traveling to Southeast Asia, I made the mistake of watching some of those scary YouTube videos showing how “primitive” the public toilets there can be. I’ll admit it: I was traumatized. I’m pretty finicky when it comes to toilets. TMI…Gay Travel7 min readGay Travel7 min read